Picture yourself sleeping on a plane.  There's something ticking in the overhead and inside your brains.

13-MAR-2004 22:26
 
So Friday morning I woke up to Jon nudging me and telling me to get my lazy ass up.  I'd hoped it was just a pessimistic dream and just lay there, completely still.  But Jon kept at it, so I gave in.  The whole point of being pessimistic is to make everything a pleasant surprise.  I'm not supposed to be right, damn it.

As we loaded up the van, I spent a couple minutes indulging daydreams of last-minute goodbyes.  But there was nothing as we pulled out of Salem.

I was pretty quiet that night in Southport.  I know; with me, it's hard to tell.  In my mind there a familiar debate had flared up again.  Murphy was in the ring again; his opponent this particular fight night wasn't the usual Occam, but John Calvin instead.  Half of me spat, "Maybe Carrie was The One.  You'll never know now; you'll probably never even see her again.  Idiot."  The other half countered, "Hey. If it was meant to be, something would have happened.  You don't even know yet; something could happen.  Have patience."

I think the latter half's watched Serendipity one too many times.

I couldn't sleep last night.  Too busy kicking myself.  When Jon went to sleep I un- and re-packed my bag and shut off all the lights.  Then I just stood there in the dark.  It was as if my skin was itchy on the inside; I can't really describe it.  More than ever I had the instinct for flight.  I contemplated stealing a car and driving off into the night.  In the end, I obviously decided against it.  The killer wasn't any moral or legal reason, but simply that I had no idea how to make it out of Jon's parents' community.

As the plane approached Jersey, it became easier and easier to breathe.  That was when I first realized that I'd been having trouble doing so.  But the calm was coming from resignation; the little glimmer of hope I had inside of me was fading.  I felt dead.  I spend too much time just sitting and waiting for things to happen.  I'm too afraid of doing anything because I'm scared of the consequences.  I should just... do what I feel like.  Be like the boy.  We like Roy.

Except this time, I should stop saying I'll do it and just do it.

I took another look at that list of things I want to do before I die.  Made some additions.  Samples: Drive I-80 all the way from New Jersey to San Francisco.  Fly a plane [from takeoff to landing].  Experience terminal velocity.

I'm formulating a post-graduation plan.  The first step is still moving back to Jersey, just because there's nothing else to do at that point.  Then there's the extremely vague get-a-job step.  But there's the save-money step, because the next is to buy a car with a nice backseat and make the drive across the country.  Once out there, continue living in the car until I set myself up somewhere.  I'll admit the plan is pretty poor;  I'm not very good at this sort of thing.

But it works for now.